About Our Retreats

 

One of our greatest joys is welcoming and supporting friends on retreats. We offer Themed Retreats and Personal Retreats. Before you register for a retreat, please familiarize yourself with the important details below.

Themed Retreats
They are specific events on the monastery’s calendar such as our Order of Interbeing, Summer, Holiday, Silent, Grief, BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, People of Color) or other Retreats. Themed Retreats may include from 30 to 200 participants. We ask all participants to attend the entire retreat. This helps to support the energy and continuity of the retreat, as well as the stability of the practice center. You may visit the Calendar of Events page to view the Themed Retreats. Please note that these are typically posted about 3 months in advance of the actual retreat.

Personal Retreats
Personal Retreat offer individuals, families, and small groups a unique opportunity to practice with the community when there is no Themed Retreat taking place. The environment at Magnolia Grove at such times allows for more personalized and intimate retreat experiences. To register for a Personal Retreat, first check our calendar to be sure there are no conflicts with the dates you would like to visit, then go to our registration page and select Personal Retreats. Please plan for a Friday arrival. To receive the most benefit from your visit, we encourage a stay of one week, but we do allow shorter stay.

Group Retreats
Group Retreats are times for sanghas, schools, or other groups (larger than eight) to practice with the community when there is no Themed Retreat taking place. To organize and plan a Group Retreat, please contact our registration office.


Registration

To ensure that we have space available for you, and in order to properly prepare for your visit, it is important that you pre-register at least one week prior to your arrival date for any retreat you may wish to attend. For personal retreat, please plan to arrive at the monastery by 5:00pm on Friday, if possible, so you can settle into your lodging before dinner at 6:00pm and then the evening program.

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When to Arrive
All new guests for Personal Retreats must arrive on Friday so that they can attend the Friday evening orientation. (Note that Themed Retreats do not always begin on Fridays.) We ask that you arrive between 3:00pm and 5:00 pm on the start date of the retreat. (Note that registration opens an hour earlier at 2pm for Themed Retreats.) On arrival, please come to the registration office, connected to the dining hall. If you arrive after the registration office has closed, you will find your name and accommodation info posted on the board in the dining hall. You may speak to a monastic or lay resident if you have any trouble finding your way around.

Transportation
* Do you need a ride or can offer a ride? Please click here to fill out the Google form.

Please see our Getting Here page for more information on transportation to the monastery.

Accommodations
Most people who visit Magnolia Grove stay in a simple dorm-style room with bunk beds and two to eight people, depending on the size of the retreat. Sharing a living space with others is part of our practice of community and togetherness. The cabins are spaces for couples and families when requested. Cabins do not have attached bathrooms, they are a short distance away. If you have questions or other accommodation needs, please contact our registration office. You may also share with us your preferences or special needs through the notes section in the online registration form.

Financial Contribution & Assistance
To meet our operating costs, Magnolia Grove depends primarily on the financial support of our guests. Through donations, monthly contributions, bookshop purchases, and retreat fees, you help Magnolia Grove to continue. For retreats, we have established a suggested donation. Please consider an additional donation to help us offer scholarships to those in need and to help us renovate and improve our facilities. (You may earmark donations for a specific project or purpose.)

Magnolia Grove Monastery would like to make our place to be accessible to people of all circumstances. If you are currently experiencing financial constraints and would like to attend a retreat, we strongly encourage you to ask for a reduction by contacting the office.

Camping
If you would like to camp during the warmer months (April through October), please bring your own tent and equipment. It can be cool at night even during these months, so please pack accordingly. You will have access to shared bathrooms with shower facilities. Camping is also available during the other months in the year, when we are receiving guests for retreat – we advise that you check the weather before you arrive, and please pack accordingly. 

For RV camping: Unfortunately we do not have any electrical or water hookups available. You’re very welcome to come with your RV, but please prepare for dry camping accordingly.

Commuting
Although we encourage our guests to stay at the monastery whenever possible, you may opt to commute to Magnolia Grove for each day of a retreat if you live nearby or if you have arranged your own nearby housing. There are several hotels, 15 minutes away from the monastery, which you can contact and make reservation directly if you have great needs. The following hotels offer a small “Magnolia Grove Rate” discount for guests visiting the monastery rate:

Holiday Inn: (662) 563-1234
Days Inn: (662) 563-4999
Quality Inn: (662) 563-6592

(Please inquire with them directly.)

This is an especially helpful option in the event that all rooms at the monastery are already reserved – which typically would only happen for certain Themed Retreats,.

Meals

Three vegetarian/vegan meals per day are included with your registration fee. There is generally a variety of options available at mealtime, but feel free to bring supplementary food for yourself if you have a particular dietary need. There may be limited access to a community refrigerator but there is no kitchen access. Due to safety regulations, we ask that you do not cook in your room.

Cancellation Policy

Notice of cancellation must be emailed to office@magnoliagrovemonastery.org, attn: “[ NAME OF THEMED RETREAT] Cancellation” or “General Retreat Cancellation,” followed by “ ­ [YOUR LAST NAME, FIRST NAME]. ” Please do not phone in your cancellation.

          The following retreat cancellation charges apply:

  • Cancellation more than 3 days before the retreat – a cancellation fee of $50.00 will be charged.
  • Cancellation less than 3 days before the retreat – 100% of the full fee will be retained by us.

    Cancellation of retreats by Magnolia Grove Monastery
    Magnolia Grove Monastery reserves the right to cancel a retreat under any circumstances. In this event, you will be offered a full refund for any payments you have made to us already. Magnolia Grove Monastery accepts no further liability for retreat cancellations beyond the retreat registration fee refund. For example, we cannot be liable for any funds spent on advance travel arrangements, such as flight tickets.


What to Bring
Please wear casual and modest clothing that is comfortable for sitting (i.e. long sleeve shirt, shirt covering shoulders; long pants below the knees; loose fitting clothes…). We do have coin-operated washing machines available for you to use. Please bring shoes suitable for walking on nature trails. Please bring your own toiletries, but avoid bringing products that may affect those who are sensitive or allergic to scents.

We encourage our guests to spend their whole stay at the monastery, so please bring everything you might need. Please do not bring non-vegan foods, alcohol, or other intoxicants. Please do not bring pets; only service animals are allowed.

    • N95 / KN95 masks (no longer required – optional)
    • At home Covid test (no longer required – optional)
  • We do kindly ask that if you’re experiencing any symptoms related to illness to please stay at home and take care of yourself; this will also help to prevent exposing others to illness while on retreat. 
    • Water bottle
    • Flashlight
    • Alarm clock
    • Towel
    • Insect repellents
    • Personal items
    • Shampoo & conditioner
    • Hand sanitizer
    • Umbrella
    • House slippers
    • Good walking or hiking shoes
    • Warm clothing and footwear, particularly in winter months
    • Sun hat in summer and warm hat in winter
    • Cloth napkin for meals
    • Bedding and/or sleeping bag (We provide a bottom fitted sheet, a pillow case and a pillow. We have blankets/sleeping bags for rent at $10.00 suggested donation.)

The weather can be very cool, wet and cold, with icy wind and occasional breaks of sunshine, and even light snow. In cool weather, suggested items to bring are a thermos, sleeping bag and warm clothing for cold, wet and windy weather. Also bring enough warm clothes, and waterproof footwear for walking outdoors.

Sample Daily Schedule
Below is a typical schedule of events at the monastery. Note, however, that our schedule varies from day to day and from season to season.

5:00am – wake up
5:30am – sitting meditation
6:45am – exercise
7:30am – breakfast
9:00am – Dharma talk / working meditation
11:00am – walking meditation
12:00pm – lunch
3:00pm – Dharma sharing or other activity
4:30pm / 5:00pm – Sitting meditation & chanting
6:30pm – dinner
7:30pm – activity or personal practice time
9:30pm – noble silence

  • * Friends are welcome to sit anywhere in the meditation hall (on either side) behind the monastics for ceremonies, precepts recitation, sitting meditation, and formal lunch.

For descriptions of the practices above, see our Be Mindful in Daily Life page.


Mindful Living
Mindfulness is woven into all of our daily activities: speaking, eating, walking, sitting, or enjoying a cup of tea. Although Magnolia Grove is not a silent retreat center, stillness and quiet are at the heart of our practice. Everyone is encouraged to generate this peaceful and healing energy by taking time to stop, slow down, be present for ourselves and others, and to be aware of each of our actions throughout the day. You may read more about the many ways we practice mindfulness at the monastery on our Be Mindful in Daily Life page.

Practicing Together
We emphasize community practice so that we can support each other and benefit from each other’s presence. We ask all who join us to help create the energy of community and togetherness by participating in all scheduled activities and by sharing their living space with others.

Mindfulness Trainings
The Five Mindfulness Trainings are the foundation of our practice and represent the Buddhist vision for a global spirituality and ethic. In order to create a safe, harmonious, and healthy environment, we ask all of our guests to live in accord with these trainings during their stay. Retreatants are requested to refrain from smoking, drinking alcohol, and sexual activity while at the monastery. Please take a moment to read through the trainings.

Internet, Phones, and Electronics
To maximize the benefit of your mindfulness practice with us, we suggest that you use electronic devices only when absolutely necessary and always in a mindful and discreet way, especially respecting the calm and quiet of our living spaces, meditation halls, and dining hall. This practice will help all of us to release our busyness and to really rest. Please let your loved ones know that you will be on retreat. In an emergency, they can reach you by contacting our registration office. Internet access, including wifi service, will be limited and often can only be accessed through voucher codes (provided by the office), in order to encourage disconnecting from devices when at the monastery. Cell phone service is not always reliable in our area either. Please make all travel arrangements in advance, whenever possible.

Service Meditation
To support the monastery, everyone is encouraged to participate in short community service periods that we call “service meditation.” Work is always done in a light and mindful way, with the support of others. Tasks may include arranging the meditation halls, cleaning bathrooms, chopping vegetables, washing pots, beautifying the gardens, and other simple responsibilities. Each person’s ability and inclinations are respected when it comes to delegating work for a given work period.

Individual Needs
Magnolia Grove is deeply committed to inclusiveness. If you have any particular need for assistance or special accommodation please contact us so we can offer you as much support as possible.

Children and Teens
Children and teens are welcome to attend our retreats. A children’s program (ages 6-12) and teen program (ages 12-17) are included on Themed Retreats when there are at least six children or teens registered. Children under ages of 5 are also welcome to the monastery. However, there is no special program for them and we ask parents to take care. 

Ticks
In the spring, summer, and fall, Magnolia Grove is home to deer ticks which may carry Lyme Disease. It is easy to protect yourself if you take a few simple precautions–most importantly, thoroughly checking yourself and your children for ticks each day. Please see this link to learn more.

Staying Longer
If you would like to stay longer than two weeks, you may write a letter to the community during your stay with us, requesting an extension – this is considered an Extended Stay, which for now is our only residential program. Please note that the first two weeks are an opporunity for you to get to know the community better and for the community to get to know you. 

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